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Exchange
Essay:
Eton
Andrew Giliam
With over 570 years of history, Eton
is a daunting place. The buildings loomed over me as my taxi pulled into
my home for the next three months. The chapel, as the biggest building
in the school towered up ahead of me and cast its shadow upon me for the
first of many times and I gazed up at it in all its splendour. Boys
stood around the school in their strange ‘penguin-looking’ tail suits
which only added to the intimidation. I had been told to expect quite a
difficult start as I settled in and fully integrated into the school,
but, surprisingly, this period was surprisingly short. The first day was
a little tough getting used to the culture, but before long boys were
popping in and out of my room regularly, and I was too ‘making the
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House life at Eton is very different
to Hilton. Whereas here there are clear distinctions between the age
groups, with Matrics holding a lot, if not all of, the power, at
Eton this is not the case. A house has
more of a family atmosphere, but perhaps this is just because their
houses are a lot smaller (about 45 – 50 boys). It is not uncommon to see
a Form 1 boy chilling with a Matric, for example and with so few in your
house you can’t really afford to not get to know everyone. I was amazed
at the friendliness of the boys as well. They were not at all shy and
made me feel one of them extremely quickly. I was also happy to see that
they were, just boys. They were not snobby, nor did they act like
‘upper-class’ citizens, but they were just normal boys leading very
privileged lives.
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At
Eton, as with all schools in England,
sport isn’t taken as seriously as it is here at Hilton. They do however
have a number of games which have been created there and are unique to
them. Field Game (which was my main opt for the term) was one such
sport. It was a very peculiar mixture between rugby and soccer, played
more like soccer, but ruled more like rugby with regards to off sides
and scrums. Interestingly, Field Game pre-dates both rugby and soccer,
and has been an influence on how each of the two games are played. I
cannot really begin to explain exactly how the game is played in
accordance to the rules as nobody in the school (including the umpires)
really knows all the rules themselves! However, the handyman in my house
was somewhat of a school legend as he was the only person who knew the
rules. The other unique sport is Wall Game. It takes the form of a large
rugby scrum against a brick wall and the aim is to get the ball out of
the mess (not an easy feat with the rough play that goes on in the
darkness of the pile of bodies) and send it out to a back player, whose
job it is to throw the ball between two lines on either side of the
wall. This hardly ever happens, however, as the last goal was scored in
1906! When watching the game, all the boys sit on the top of the wall
and look down at the action.
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Because
these two games are played only at Eton,
there is a large emphasis on inter-house sport. There is a lot of
competition between the 26 houses to see who can win the various cups.
While I was there our house won the Field Game cup, and I was lucky
enough to witness a great final in which we pipped our opponents to the
post in the last few minutes.
Being a big place, I found it quite hard to find my way around at the
beginning of my exchange. All the
buildings look very similar and on more than one occasion found myself
popping my head into the wrong classroom to be met with snickers and
laughs. But, when one spends time at another place, you get a feeling
for it very quickly and very soon, Eton
was my new home. There are 1300 boys, who all walk around in their
famous Eton tail-suits. Being so many
boys it is impossible to get to know everybody in five years, let alone
three months. At times you get the feeling of being pushed around in a
tidal wave of action where there is just a swarm of boys and teachers
marching on to their destination.
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There
is a lot more class time at Eton and
it takes place in the morning and then again in the afternoon at
half-four after sport. Boys do, however get more free lessons during the
day to compensate for the longer hours of classroom time. Also in the
afternoon there is a tea time where you can go into one of the few
kitchens in your house and make yourself some toast and get something to
drink. This is called Debate kitchen which is a fitting name because you
get talking about the day’s events and arguing over sports results etc.
This is a time where you really get to know some of the boys in your
house and develop friendships. On free afternoons you get the chance to
go out and play ‘footy’ on the hockey astro-turf and I (not being the
best at soccer in the world) was immediately singled out as such and
placed with the other South African in my house!
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Boys
also have the option of going into Windsor for the afternoon if they
have nothing on. Eton is not a closed
campus and is actually situated in a town called
Eton. Over the Thames River is Windsor
where the queen resides over weekends and special days in the calendar.
Boys are free to wander into Windsor and do what they please which often
includes going to MacDonald’s (which can bore a hole into you wallet
after a while!).
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Eton,
having the reputation it does, is able to attract English celebrities to
come and speak to them. Eton boasts
many societies which cater for everybody and every interest that a boy
might have. They range from the Medical society to the Comedy society.
While I was there I met people like Darren Gough, Chris Huhne (a high-up
politician) and actor Hugh Laurie (Flight of the Phoenix and House – the
TV series). They are also getting Michael Parkinson and Sir Clive
Woodward to come soon to speak to them. They are privileged to be able
to get very high profile people to further their horizons and get given
the best start possible in life.
Having said this, I came away from Eton
really appreciating Hilton and all it offers. I have really realized
that we are immensely privileged to be afforded the opportunity to come
to this great school. Boys who go on exchange
are given the unique opportunity to see Hilton from the inside out and
the outside in. Comparing the two schools is not possible as they are
totally different. Both schools have huge strengths and areas which
could be enhanced. I have come out on the other side of my
exchange with great memories, great
lessons learnt, but most importantly new friends and new contacts who I
will continue to keep in contact with. It is an experience I will never
forget and hold in my heart and mind until I die. I would like to
encourage any boys wishing to go on exchange
to go for it and all who aren’t to seriously consider it. It is the
chance of a lifetime and one would be silly to let it pass.
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